what is the word

I would say that my dating life is spinning out of control, except it's pretty much always out of control. Suffice to say it's staying its crazy course.
To recap, I went out with the nineteen year-old. I fucking KNEW I would do that. Anyway, he was great. He came with me to see The Fog of War & whispered intelligent & funny (when appropriate) comments to me furtively thruout. Afterwards we went to Milady's in Soho, to play pool & get beers. I meant to ask him whether he had a fake ID but I forgot. Either way, nobody carded him. The only awkward part of the evening was when that song "Two Princes" by the Spin Doctors came on (the jukebox at Milady's isn't updated very often). We laughed about how old it was, and then he said it was his favorite song when he was in third grade.
I think I was a freshman in high school when that song was popular. I shudder to think!
As to the other guy I'm seeing, he's starting to annoy me. He's super into hip hop, which is totally cool. But his lingo is out of control. The last email he wrote me contained the phrases "ill," "word," "mad," and, most gratingly, "ruffneck styles." I'm not even sure what that means.
I know it's nitpicky & psycho to be turned off by someone on the basis of vocabulary. But I think I feel a break-up speech coming on:
Yo, baby, I ain't feelin' you! Nahmean? We used to be mad chill & everything, you was my boo. When I first met you our shit was tight yo. It was sick. But on the real, I think we'd be doper as homies. You feel me? PEACE.